A Chosen Reputation

I never focus much on the past because I think we ought not to reflect on it more than we do on enjoying, and sometimes even just acknowledging the good that is today. Dwelling in the past distracts us from seeing how fulfilled we can be today.  If we stay in the past, we will cripple our progress. 

This week, however, I was led to reflect on its importance.  I was in a conference room, when the gentleman said, "let me start off by telling you about the history of our organization". He proceeded to tell me about all their failed attempts to change a community. Whoa...why is he speaking so negatively, I asked myself?  I held on for the point he was trying to make only to hear him admit that their reputation had stunted their growth.  Their efforts would not allow them to reach the heights required to effectuate the change that this community needs.  He went on to say that though his organization could not take the lead, they stood ready to support another's work.  He added, “this endeavor must be led by a fresh face, by an entity with a strong track record”.  I understood what he said and the truth in it, but this thought really had me going. 

I seriously believe in second chances, none of us are perfect; all of us can decide to and strive to be better in spite of our mistakes.  That's the core of the organization and mission that I serve.  My office has seen ex-felons persist until they get an inroad at a job; they prove themselves during the temporary construction work and earn a permanent maintenance job which leads to a new life. Transformations can and does take place.  I believe we can have within us what it takes to make a 180 degree turn. Our future can be greater than our past and present regardless of reputation; that’s how it should be.

Before taking control of your reputation, you must accept two truths:

As good as the future can be, before we can obtain the victory that awaits, we just have to come to terms with our current reputation.

While the effects of one’s reputation are real, they are surely not permanent- not unless you give consent. 

Understanding history will not only teach us what not to do, but also help us strategize a better approach towards the future.  Be very careful, however, that in researching and gathering the information, you do not lose yourself in what no longer is.  Don’t you dare disqualify what could be because of what was!  I am simply saying that we have to wise up.  Reputation is the beliefs or opinions generally held about someone or thing.  It is others’ belief that you have a specific pattern or characteristic and since you can change your habits and characteristics, your reputation should not define who you are.

It is just the opposite: you choose what you become!  Once you know who are, you take control of your actions and essentially choose your reputation. You can change; you can grow to the next level!  So whether it’s your person or your organization:

1.    identify your passion and desire,

2.    evaluate your strengths,

3.    collect information on the environment/the players & that which can compliment your weaknesses,

4.    devise a plan,

5.    own your strategy and

6.    make that change.

You wouldn’t be the first in history to choose your reputation.