I can go back to the very moment, the first and last time, the words resounded clearly in my being. It was after a Sunday service, in a brief moment when my Pastor asked me how I was doing. He knew of the trials and news my husband and I were experiencing; he knew I had reason to be in sorrow. My Pastor seemed to be surprised when I responded saying, “It is well with my soul.”
In that moment in which those words came out of my mouth, I had found peace. Indeed, I was in a daily fight to keep my Sweet Jesus Joy in the middle of processing the fact that my husband I and were told we were never going to be able to bear children together. But somehow, I knew that my God would come through to fill this deep desire in our hearts. I honestly didn't know why or how this was all happening to us and quite frankly just grew tired of trying to make sense of it- believe me I tried. God had literally put me (a “I wanna to be in control" crazy kind of planner person) into a situation I didn’t cause and could do nothing to change. It was out of my control and I hated it! But in that incredibly uncomfortable season, I learned about trust. I sought out my God and reached a new level of love and trust for my Father.
After my toiling with the “why?" and "its not fair” for a while, I progressed a bit and began to dwell in what I know about God and not what I didn’t know about my situation. In that process, I found peace, I prayed for trust and fought for my joy! It was the truth when I said, “it is well with my soul”. Not because I knew what next, but because I knew whatever was next was good. Not just the “good" that we use in our usual talk but the Good, well-pleasing and perfect used to describe the will of God in Romans 12.2. I knew that only GOOD could only come from my Creator and the lover of my soul who knows me better than I know myself.
Out of that trial, unfolded a truly precious love story that was an answer to over a decade old prayer and is still teaching us today. A foster and adoption story I pray we’ll fully share one day, but for today suffices to say that it brought us our beloved foster son who was reunified with his family after 10 months in our care and our Amazing Karis who we miraculously adopted from foster care after only 8 months of receiving her. If you know foster care, you know that was GRACE!
But before the mountain top of our "forever family” adoption celebration on National Adoption Day, I had to come to a place where I could say, and believe, “it is well with my soul". Be encouraged: no matter where you find yourself today- know that God loves you. Don’t wait for the event you are praying for, but find peace and joy in who God is.